Actually (I am privy as VP of the Houston MBCA chapter) there has been some very specific outreach to chapter leadership in the form of directives and videos, authored by the club leadership, to try to instruct section leaders to be more outgoing at events and to reach out more to members -- especially new members. This is evidence to me that there is a very strong realization among the national board that some basic skills are lacking, that cliques definitely do exist among section members, and that new and occasionally attending members are not feeling welcomed into the fold.
I can say that when I was in Portland, I would attend perhaps 1-2 events a year put on by the Portland section. And I was never a member of the "clique" there, always an outsider. I knew a few people and hung out with them, but few if any people made an effort to come over and introduce themselves, or check out my cars (450SEL 6.9, 300SEL 6.3, etc.). Few members even knew what my cars were !! The one event I never missed was the annual tech session, which was held at my mechanic's shop (MBI Motors in Portland) and the owner, shop foreman and most of the mechanics (all of whom I was great friends with) were there, and I relished the chance to hang out at the shop on the weekend.
In Houston, I certainly didn't know anyone, being new to the section and to the area. However I started attending events, again very infrequently at first. Very similar story as with Portland -- few folks were that interested to see a 560SEC or an E500, and fewer even knew what an E500 is !! I attended a couple of events, mainly an annual run up to Centerville (about halfway between Houston and Dallas on I-45) and met DarkStar (from Austin) and alabbassi (from Dallas, whom I knew online for many years through M-100 circles) and some other folks. Then I went to the annual Oktoberfest at Texas-German Autohaus, where the co-owner has the Albrex-supercharged 500E. I started volunteering to give tech sessions at events. Then I decided to talk to the incoming section President (the youngest MBCA section president in the US) about perhaps helping him out. He encouraged me to run for VP. Through that I met the other section board members at the board meetings, and now I attend probably most of the section events. So it just sort of snowballed from there.
Generally speaking though, folks in Texas and the South tend to be much more outgoing and friendly and easier to get to know than folks on the West Coast. It's just the culture here, people are real nice and they'll give you the shirt off their back if you need it.
So the bottom line is that you get out of it (MBCA) what you put into it. If you decide to get active and to try to make a difference, then people will stand up and take notice, and you'll meet folks. Particularly if you have good ideas and deliver on your promises.
I agree with the sentiment that there are far too many old folks running MBCA (definitely true in my section, where some of the board members are retired dudes) and I think this introduces some mentality not to want to try new/innovative things. I mean, why get together with BMW guys when you can sit around with other dudes just like you and have wine and cheese? The demographics of MB owners and buyers tends to be older than BMW, Audi and Porsche (though it has come down a bit in recent years) and there are fewer and fewer folks out there (car owners in general) who even like to work on their cars !! Most people just want something that's cheap, reliable and has 1,000 horsepower and looks good with them driving it (you know, that old "chicks dig it" thing I'm always talking about here). It's not easy running a club like MBCA because it IS so diverse. So you just have to find a formula that works for your own locale and go with it. But doing the same old wine and cheese lunches and formal Christmas dinners thing and throwing your dentures down on the table just isn't going to cut it. No young whippersnapper wants to hang out with dudes who roll around in nitrous-powered wheelchairs or who bring a half-rusted 240D to that month's MBCA event....
Cheers,
Gerry