It is very, very, very unusual to have an upper pan gasket leak (between the aluminum pan and the engine block). I've actually never heard of a confirmed leak in this area. The leak source is almost always something else, that appears to be coming from the upper pan. I think it could be done without removing the entire engine, but it would be a miserable job... probably easier to remove the engine, ugh. FSM says you just need to lift the engine as high as possible (
click here).
Full removal of the engine+transmission usually takes me about 8 hours, and it's about 12 hours to reinstall (including adding all fluids), so 20 hours just for R&R isn't out of line. Of course that doesn't include all the "while you're in there" things that should be done like replacing the trans blanket, all p/s and SLS return hoses, completely re-sealing the transmission, etc, etc. If you can't do the work yourself, it's generally not worthwhile unless you plan to keep the car for-
ev-er. With the engine out you still have a problem, as the normal engine stand mounting points include the oil pan, so the motor would have to sit upside down on the intake & heads while you R&R the pan.
Anyway: No, don't use stop leak products of any kind. Clean the area in question squeaky clean with degreasers & rags, and try to pinpoint the source. You can stuff folded paper towels in various places (tie in place with wire or Zip ties if needed) to help identify the source. Common sources are the lower pan gasket, oil level sender, and cam adjust solenoids.
