Car and Driver did a pretty good issue on EVs, the
FAQ portion was good. On concerns about the grid...:
"A 2019 Department of Energy
report found that the mass adoption of EVs "will not pose significantly greater challenges than past evolutions of the U.S. electric power system." In the long run, EVs may even add stability to the grid. Ford says the F-150 Lightning will eventually be able to power a house during peak demand to save homeowners money and ease pressure on utilities."
EV Manufacturing Impacts are real, but this 2015
report from the Union of Concerned Scientists shows that even accounting for that they are still 2-5x better depending on how the many variables at play shake out (no affiliation FWIW....I was a card carrying member of the union of apathetic scientists during grad school). The grid has only gotten cleaner since then (helping EVs), and they've updated the report to reflect that.

In that report Car and Driver also did a humorous
1100 mile road trip in EVs...predictably, the Teslas crush it, and others are catching up. Had they used the latest/greatest Model S, the charge time would have been cut in half. Not sure what bladders/stomachs you all have, but 45 minutes of stop time on an 1100 mile trip is below my bare minimum. I've done road trips from the Bay Area to Death Valley, Yosemite, Tahoe, and Joshua Tree in my brother's Model 3 with no issue.
EV tech still has some gaps (range when towing, charger speed and availability) but they are closing really fast (10 years ago you couldn't even buy a Tesla much less charge it), so I'm optimistic of where we'll be in 5 or 10 years in terms of how 'frictionless' the experience is. They offer an admittedly different driving experience that is in many ways better (quiet, v12 smooth, fast) and others lacking (sound, drama). I've been disappointed in the styling of most EVs to date....some Teslas are good, the Taycan looks great, but in general it's just unimaginitive and bland (although I suppose that's the industry these days?). The new Hyundai Ioniq 5 looks a bit Giugiaro esque which is fun, the Tesla CyberTruck is....not to everyone's taste but at lease it's something new? The BMW stuff is horrid, but again that seems to be their brand as a whole these days. Sad to see IMO, always loved their rivalry with Benz and their 80s/90s stuff is gorgeous and timeless.
I'll never forget meeting the late David E Davis at the Detroit autoshow in 2008 and he presciently said 'Some people say this is the beginning of the end, I just think it's the end of the beginning'